How often would you like to have sex?

How often would you like to have sex?

What is your sex drive like and what is your partner's [should you have one] sex drive?

What do you consider to be a normal level of sex? Every day? Every week? Only a few times a month?

Both my boyfriend and I are at the more-than-once-a-day level. I'm at 2-3 times a day and he sits at around 5 times a day.

I'm at a once a day/ more than once a day sex drive, while my boyfriend is at a once a month.

We used to have sex a lot, now he's not as sexually active, but we're doing alright. I just have to turn him on, and then we have sex whenever I want

As far as whats normal...there's no normal in my opinion. Sex is primal, and wonderful, and so many people are at different stages in how much they need it or want it.

Well i think that is a very interesting question. . .

I've always considered myself to have a low sex drive; with my ex of 20 years we started off at a few times a week but after only a few months we were down to a few times a months, after a 3 or 4 years it was only a few times a year and in the last 5 or 6 years of the relationship nothing at all. I just didn't want to, i didn't really enjoy sex at all, it sadly became a chore.

BUT with my new sweet heart , who has taught me so much (never to old to learn) my sex drive has gone crazy, he has shown me how much fun and pleasure sex can be, we don't get a lot of chances at the moment we are lucky if its once a week, then its 2, 3 or even 4 times (if he's not too tired) in one night. The last night we got together it lasted for 4 hours then another hour in the morning. I was very happy very satisfied but fairly sore the next day, needed a couple of days to recover.

Anyway i ticked a few times a week because even if we lived together (one day i hope) anymore than a few times a week, i don't think i'd be able to walk straight at the moment the way i feel i want him many times a day but i think that would kill us (but what a way to go)

I would be happy with 4-5 times a week. If it is an especially horny day, 3 times is my max. lol.

There is no "normal." It differs for everyone. But I definitely think sex is part of a healthy relationship. Me... I like a lot o' it.

I'd love a few times per week

But the wife hasn't wanted sex for almost the last year. So we don't connect at all.
We had pretty good sex last fall for a couple of weeks and prior to that it had been 4 years.

So you guys/girls that do it at least weekly should consider yourselves very lucky!

For me, "normal" would be at least once a day, but ideally I'd like to have sex twice a day and more on weekends.
Of course, this would depend on my mood, level of stress, etc. When I'm tired or busy, my level of desire goes down. And when I'm relaxed...when I'm drunk....it goes UP UP UP UP ....

I said more than once a day, but, obviously there are so many variables that factor into one's sex drive that make it a hard question to answer.

I love sex, and there are plenty of days where I could go multiple times a day. But, there are also days where I have been so stressed out at work or with life in general, that all I really want to do is put on my most comfortable pajamas, and sleep.

Everyone's version of 'normal' varies.

How often would I like to have sex was the question?
I would LIKE to have sex every few days, so around 3-4 times a week. But, how much do I have it in reality? Like once or twice a month.

My boyfriend and I arent married (yet) and we dont live together. Religiously, I feel very guilty when we have sex bc we arent married. Plus, He is super busy with work and we dont see each other often. That's why its so low right now.

I cant wait until we are married and start our lives together. Then, our drive will be through the roof for a while

daily.. or twice a day.. or even three times a day... lol it depends... sometimes our wishes do not correspond with reality....