Sex problems
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Christian
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Sex problems
I recently haven't been able to cum with my girlfriend, I don't know what he problem is but think the reason I can't see to get stimulated enough, i think it might be she's not tight enough...this problem is starting to affect our relationship and I don't know what I can do. I love her but it seems she doesn't like sex.
Christian- Posts : 7
Join date : 2009-10-15
find out the problem
Maybe it’s not her fault . . . maybe the fact that you know she's not enjoying is a huge bummer for you. After all, sex is so much more enjoyable and passionate when both partners are enjoying the romp. Maybe you should ask her why she doesn't enjoy sex that much. Is she in pain? Does it stir up bad memories for her? Is she maybe getting 'bored' of the 'usual routine'?
It could be something simple as going to the doctors to see if there is a hormone imbalance, or maybe all you need is a weekend getaway to spice up the sex life. For now, I wouldn't put any pressure on both of you to have sex. Find out the root of the problem first, then work on the physical side of it.
It could be something simple as going to the doctors to see if there is a hormone imbalance, or maybe all you need is a weekend getaway to spice up the sex life. For now, I wouldn't put any pressure on both of you to have sex. Find out the root of the problem first, then work on the physical side of it.
BabyBoy- Posts : 6
Join date : 2009-10-15
Location : UK
Re: Sex problems
There could be tons of reasons why. It could be nerves, stress, lack of foreplay, any number of physical problems, etc. I think there's a lot more to the problem than what you've told us so far.
One thing it is most likely NOT, however, is that she's not 'tight enough.' You are not the only guy out there with this problem, so let's not shift the blame around.
It doesn't seem like either you or your girlfriend find your sex lives very fulfilling. This might contribute to why she doesn't enjoy sex as much as you'd like her to. You not being able to cum can be as much a blow to her 'ego' as it is to yours. Sounds like you guys need to have an open and honest conversation about this, especially since this has taken a toll on your relationship.
Like I said, it's hard to give any solid advice because there's probably more to it than what you've given us.
One thing it is most likely NOT, however, is that she's not 'tight enough.' You are not the only guy out there with this problem, so let's not shift the blame around.
It doesn't seem like either you or your girlfriend find your sex lives very fulfilling. This might contribute to why she doesn't enjoy sex as much as you'd like her to. You not being able to cum can be as much a blow to her 'ego' as it is to yours. Sounds like you guys need to have an open and honest conversation about this, especially since this has taken a toll on your relationship.
Like I said, it's hard to give any solid advice because there's probably more to it than what you've given us.
IceDrive- Posts : 4
Join date : 2009-10-15
Location : USA
Re: Sex problems
hey Chris, any problem should be discussed openly with your partner
the problem should be found first and then the solution ...
the problem should be found first and then the solution ...
Xman- Posts : 13
Join date : 2010-06-18
Re: Sex problems
Xman wrote:hey Chris, any problem should be discussed openly with your partner
the problem should be found first and then the solution ...
yeah, I do agree..
dady- Posts : 19
Join date : 2010-11-01
Age : 45
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